In order that a child grows up a full-fledged person, along with other qualities he/she needs self-confidence, which means trust and belief in himself/herself. The confident child believes in his/her abilities. This belief is formed over time and is based on an ability to develop self-confidence.

Always emphasize a child’s skills, and his/her dignity, for example, that he-she paints or sings well. Such emphasis on every little success is a small but important part of self-confidence.

Encourage and promote a child. Many parents or teachers cannot perform this simple recommendation. You can be able to bring up a happy child by constantly encouraging and supporting his/her dreams and beliefs. Listen to children: Their dreams may change, but they will never forget your words, which may be very painful for them.

Trust them. Children quickly realize what their parents, relatives, or teachers think about them. If you trust them and have faith in them, they will start believing in themselves as well.

You should often explain to children that they can decide for themselves how to decorate a house (to plant the flowers, paint the fence, etc.); that if they need help, you will always be by their side, but that you give them complete freedom, and thereby demonstrate that you believe in them.

Gain self-confidence
Gain self-confidence

Help them to discover their natural abilities. Children need to see their abilities and feel that they can use them.

Children brought up in a difficult environment

Get self-confidence
Get self-confidence

Is it possible for every child to get self-confidence? Yes, it is. Are there any situations when children have obstacles in the way? Yes, there are.

Unfortunately, quite a few children (1 out of 5) grow up in an environment where they get serious traumas, taunts, and maltreatment.

A child who is growing up in such an environment needs a lot more effort to gain self-confidence; however, this is any way possible. With help of mentors and educational, therapeutic, and creative programs such children managed and learned to believe in their abilities.

Faith, belief, and trust

Self-confidence is based on a proper assessment of own abilities. A child’s self-esteem increases when the child’s parents and other adults trust and believe in his/her abilities. This belief is reflected in the child’s inner world. A step-by-step, day-by-day a child will generate his/her self-confidence.

Many famous people have said, that they have achieved great success thanks to confidence:

  • „Getting ahead in a difficult profession requires avid faith in yourself. That is why some people with mediocre talent, but with great inner drive, go so much further than people with vastly superior talent.” – Sophia Loren.
  • „Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner sparks of possibility into flames of achievement.” – Golda Meir.
  • „Success is most often achieved by those who don’t know that failure is inevitable.” – Coco Chanel
  • „The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.” – Sylvia Plath